The ABC’s of Online Promotion


Online Promotion can be defined as the process of analyzing your target market, building connections and creating consistency on the internet.

Analyze my target market, build connections, create consistency….what are you talking about Teresa?

Well, let’s take it one piece at a time. Analyze your target market. That phrase still seems to overwhelm people and it can be a bit intimating. But once you identify and analyze your target market, it is much easier to promote your services, products, brand productively.

When asked the question, “Who is your target market?”, would you reply by answering, “Well, all women.” or perhaps, you think the answer to the question is, “Well, mostly everyone could use my products (or services)?”

In order to narrow the parameters, think about ideal client (i.e. individual of your target market).

Ask yourself these types of questions:

Male or Female?

How old are they? This range should be only 10-15 years range (35-50)

Single or Married?

Kids?

How many kids?

Any pets?

What kind of pets?

How many pets?

Hobbies?

Those are only a few of the questions to “target” your market. Basically, the more exactly you can identify what your ideal client looks like, the better you are at getting to able to promote to them effectively.

Next, let’s examine building connections. Creating, making and building connections is one of the keys of online promotion to be successful. Now, this doesn’t mean you just go and put yourself on everyone’s list and start immediately selling to everyone you meet. It does mean you can start conversation with others whom are in your target market, join a few networking groups where your ideal client is a member and be there as a resource for others.

And then be consistent while you maintain your online promotional efforts. It seems as if consistency is key to many things in our lives. In order for us to maintain an ideal weight, we need to be consistent with our balanced diet and exercise program. In order for us to have a vehicle operating properly, we need to keep up the maintenance on oil changes, fuel type, tire pressure, engine performance. The same thing needs to happen with your business.

One way to create consistency is schedule time each week for your online promotional efforts. You will be in front of your target market and building connections to allow you to build a successful online promotion plan.

Teresa Morrow is on Board of Advisors with The WECAI Network ™ (http://www.wecai.org) and Editor at Large at WE Magazine for Women ™ (http://www.wemagazineforwomen). She has over 15 years working with various industries to include property management, landscape architecture and financial planning firms in executive administrative positions. In 2007, Teresa started Key Business Partners, a virtual assistance & online promotional company for coaches, speakers and writers. She cares about her clients and is available for 20 minute free consultation. You can contact her via email at keybusinesspartners@verizon.net or visit her website at http://www.keybusinesspartners.com .

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Posted on June 27th, 2008 by Teresa Morrow
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Quick Health Tip: Drop the Baggy Clothes


Okay, what are you wearing? Are you in baggy PJs, jeans, shorts or loose shirts? One of the perks of working from home is that it doesn’t matter what you wear. From a health perspective, try wearing clothes that are comfortable, but snug.

Why? You’re less likely to overindulge with snacks throughout the day and more likely, to eat smaller portions during meal time.

Let the size be your motivation to focus on healthy living. With comfortable clothing, you can take breaks and exercise in small bursts. Drop and do a few sit ups and push ups. Throw in a few lunges and squats.

Clothing is a way for us to express ourselves and being comfortable in snug clothing will help remind you of your health goals. Baggy clothes make everyone look bigger. It’s time to drop those extra 15 to 20 lbs!

What did you do today to be healthy and fit?

Cindy Posey, CI-CPT, is a physical trainer and author of Go Workout Mom, a blog designed to motivate moms to prioritize physical fitness. She is married to a wonderful man with two toddlers serving as her inspiration. She juggles life, tutoring, mystery shopping and a part time personal training job at a gym near home. For a dose of motivation, check out her Motivator Newsletter and free Mom’s Journal in Fitness to begin your journey in fitness.

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Posted on June 26th, 2008 by Cindy Posey
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How to get your partner from zero to hero in your business – Part VI


Part VI – Sharing the Journey

In part V, I set the stage for the key piece: Us. Although success is a personal concept, sharing the journey is what we’re all about.

Each day is a new beginning.

A fresh start toward that which you desire. If you view your life as a journey unfolding before you, where you are at right now, in this moment, is simply that – the point you are at.

It is the point that you will be moving forward from, toward that which you desire. It does not matter how you got to this point, nor does it matter whether you like being at this point – it’s just a starting point.

The journey is, of course, your life. Your business, relationships, etc. are the components that comprise your life. When you shift your focus to the life you want to be living, and away from any of the individual components, you allow yourself to be in a different space, and more in tune with the opportunities that are available to you.

The single most important aspect of your life is how you are showing up and who you are being. The same is true for your significant other. When you are both being your true authentic selves, you are optimally positioned for that which you both desire to come about.

Regardless of whether your other half is at the same point as you, it is imperative that you be fully yourself. This is the key to everything that you desire in your life.

As you focus on the life that you want to be living, both your personal life and your life together, you will be establishing the direction for the next part of your journey to unfold.

While it is a fact that you have no power over other people, having clarity on your purpose will help create the space that you want your partner to share with you.

It is, of course, not just about what you want. Your significant other’s goals, dreams, passions, etc. are an essential part of the mix.

Your shared life together is like a large paint-by-numbers canvas. There are some colors that you hold, some that he holds and there are some that you both hold together.

The only way to complete the painting is for you both to do your individual parts, and then paint the rest together.

As you are fully being you in the moment – and allowing your partner to be fully themselves, you are able to fully enjoy this space together. Although you are on a journey, it is not so much about the destination as it is the journey itself. After all, if you are really not enjoying the trip, how will you enjoy where you are going to?

As you are unique, individual, powerful beings, you both will – and should – continue to expand in your personal experience. If you maintain the importance of ‘us’ – your shared space together, you will find your relationship evolves and expands in conjunction with your personal awareness.

When you allow your focus to shift away from your relationship, you can easily find yourself in a space where you aren’t connected to each other. At which point, you must then focus on reestablishing the connection.

Continuing our journey analogy, it is akin to you both taking separate paths when the road forks and then needing to back up to meet each other again. When you are talking about your life, backing up is not always an easy thing to do.

It is so much easier to maintain your focus on all aspects of the life that you want and then allow the journey to bring you to all that you desire.

In summary: The journey is your life. Yours and your shared life together. It is all about living the life that you want to be living. If you are not in that space, then something needs to shift. Remember always that the place to look for your answers is within you, for that is the only place where you have any power to change.

If this series of articles has connected with you, and you would like to learn more about how my coaching can guide you in making the shifts you seek, please contact me for more information on the various coaching programs I have available for you and your significant other.

Living the best life possible is your birthright. Why settle for less?

Mark Semple is a Certified Comprehensive Coach and the 2007 International Coach of the Year. Most importantly, Mark is the dedicated supporter of his wife in her business. For Mark’s insights on gaining the support of your partner, and on Success Together, visit: www.successfultogethercoaching.com

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Posted on June 24th, 2008 by Mark Semple
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When the storm strikes: home office preparedness


Here I am running off the gasoline in my generator. A nasty storm came through that left thousands, including us, without power. It made me thankful that I was prepared – are you? Can a bad storm or other glitch in your service take your business down? Following are some things to think about:

  1. Are your desktop PC’s or servers on a battery backup? Windows doesn’t like to be shut down unexpectedly and has been known to corrupt files and drives when that happens. Thankfully we had all our computers (that weren’t laptops) on a Uninterruptable Power Source (UPS) so I had time to run around and shut them down when the lights went out. You can ever get software that closes down your computer automatically when it runs off the UPS for a certain amount of time. The disk you save could be your own!
  2. Do you know where the closest Wi-Fi Hotspot is? Mine is the little coffee shop in town. It’s free, so when the power is out they get a lot of business from the folks in my neighborhood.

  3. Do you have an old-fashioned phone that doesn’t require power? I am amazed at how many people have FORGOTTEN what a regular phone is. Keep at least one in your house (they’re dirt cheap!) for those black out times.

  4. Have you considered a generator? We lose power quite often and I can’t afford to stop working every time, and I CERTAINLY can’t afford to restock my freezer either when my meat spoils. We invested in a fairly-moderate generator a few years back that my husband was able to connect in through the circuit break panel so it runs most of the house. Don’t ask me how he did it, but it works great when we need it!

  5. Last but not least, do you have an off-site backup of your critical data? I know this is nothing new, but I know a lot of people who don’t do this. Do me a favor: don’t wait to lose everything to start backing up your files. I’ve had too many hard drive crashes (don’t buy a Toshiba laptop!) to not be diligent about backing up. Don’t get caught with your without your data duplicated somewhere.

Don’t wait until a hurricane, thunderstorm, or rolling blackout interrupts your business. Take some proactive steps NOW to make sure you’re ready when the lights go out in Georgia (or wherever you’re located)…

Julie Lenzer Kirk, an award-winning entrepreneur and mother of two, grew her business to multi-millions in revenues while raising her family. She cashed out of her company and now teaches entrepreneurship at the University of Maryland while providing workshops, consulting, and keynotes as the President & CEO of Path Forward International. She is the author of The ParentPreneur Edge: What Parenting Teaches About Building a Successful Business. Sign up for her monthly “Boot in the Butt”(TM) e-newsletter at www.JulieLenzerKirk.com

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Posted on June 19th, 2008 by Julie Lenzer Kirk
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How to get your partner from zero to hero in your business – Part V: Make it about us


Part V – Make it about usSuccessful Together

In part IV, I shared on how YOU could be impeding the very support that you want. Now, it is time to move forward to gaining the support that you desire and deserve …

It is a given that success is an inside job. And, that your success is not contingent upon what anyone else says, thinks, does or doesn’t do. Including your significant other.

Having the support of your partner is thus not a need-based entity, it’s from your desire to do something meaningful together and share the journey. Per my mantra: To put the ‘us’ in business.

Yes, it is imperative that you have clear, specific goals and a vision for the life that you want to be living. How do you share that with your partner and give them a picture that they don’t see themselves in?

Basically, talk in terms of us at every opportunity. It is our business; we are accomplishing x, and so on.

Speaking in this fashion sends a clear signal that you see him as an active participant in all key phases of your life, your business and, most importantly – your relationship.

Should you practice this even though your partner may not have the desire to participate yet? Absolutely. Just as you don’t wait for results to feel successful, don’t wait for anything to be successful together.

Your vision for the life you want to together is just as crucial as your vision for the success of your business. Granted, it does add an extra dimension as your significant other has an active role in your relationship and is thus outside of your direct control.

And, that is okay. Your sole responsibility is to show up as the authentic you. Doing so positions you to be the most effective in any aspect of your life or business.

When you do approach your partner for interaction or conversation, would you rather show up as the fun, bubbly, passionate person that you truly are? Or as anything else, which is essentially not you?

In a previous post, I wrote about the importance of making your business appealing. Nobody will be enthused for too long doing something that is not fulfilling or enjoyable. Any time that you get to spend together on your business is that most precious of time – time together. Yes, you may have some important topics to discuss, like money or priorities. Why not do it in a way that is upbeat, positive and ties in with the amazing future that is unfolding for you both?

Life is, of course, life and things can & will happen that may feel less than optimal at the time. The better space you are both in personally and jointly, the easier it will be to ease through the rough spots.

Has there been anything yet in your life together that you have not made it through?

Just as a sports team wins by each player focusing on doing his role, you & your partner will achieve that which you desire by doing your respective roles. Most couples have separated out chores and responsibilities in a way that is fulfilling to them, and then they simply do their part.

It is valuable to remember that, for a man, doing the best job he can with his responsibilities is one of the deepest ways that he shows commitment for you and your family. It is the things that we do individually that help make the things we do together possible.

Some folks think that we shouldn’t make a big deal of it when someone does something they are supposed to do. I beg to differ. Everyone likes to feel appreciated for what they are doing and the contribution that they are making.

If you get an opportunity to express appreciation to your mate for the things he does that make your life together the amazing experience it is, take it.

Notice how you once again make it about us? And what does a man want to do when he feels appreciated for something? That’s right – he wants to do more.
Once again, this is not about being needy – if a person actually needs compliments and praise in order to feel worthy, that is not a healthy space.

It is simply about expressing your appreciation for that which the most important person in your life does.

In summary: It really is all about us. You do what you need to do individually and you share regularly on what great things you have in your life today – and what amazing things are in your future. The future that you will create – together.

Mark Semple is a Certified Comprehensive Coach and the 2007 International Coach of the Year. Most importantly, Mark is the dedicated supporter of his wife in her business. For Mark’s insights on gaining the support of your partner, and on Success Together, visit: www.successfultogethercoaching.com

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Posted on June 17th, 2008 by Mark Semple
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Wix.com – Make your own flash website or blog for free!


Please welcome Allon Bloch, co-CEO of Wix – a free online software that allows you to make your own flash website, blog, MySpace and more!Supposedly, it’s incredibly-simple to use. U know how non-techie I am. While I really want to give it a whirl, “test” it out, and report back to you…something better brewed ov’r yonder. Since time and energy is scarse & after developing a nice rapport with a few of Wix staff while hosting the below interview/article, Wix offered to contribute a weekly series specific to “Internet Branding for Entrepreneurs & Small Business Owners”. How sweet is that!?

Phew! Having Amit share tips, how-to’s, and more, I’m hoping we will all soon have some kickin’ flash websites ourselves.

P.S. Read to the end, and find out how You can be apart of this invitation-only closed-Beta opportunity!

So, what is Wix Allon ?

Wix is a start up that’s venture backed.

It’s a classic story of a few founders frustrated with a big problem – and spending time and energy to resolving it. In this case, Gig Kaplan, Avishai and Nadav Abrahami (brothers) were looking at the web publishing market in 2005 and were frustrated with the inability to create a web site that looks good and is easy to make. To create a good looking website you need to pay many thousands of dollars to a team of coders and designers, and once you have the site published you need to run back to the coders when you want to make a change. The other option is typically a dreary looking template site that provides no creativity, self expression or a true way to tailor a site to one’s needs.

- So the guys (yes sorry all the founders are guys in this case…) felt like they could tackle this problem and moreover felt like it’s a pretty basic problem. During the last couple of years the emergence of widgets as an important part of the web, especially on social networks, have increased the importance of creating a web-top publishing platform that could enable users to create great stuff online WITHOUT the need to code and WITHOUT being constrained by templates.

- I joined as co-CEO in February 2008, and Nir Zohar as head of operation about a year ago. We’re HQed in NY with a large team in Tel Aviv, Israel

- We’re still in private beta, and while I can’t reveal any of our numbers/targets, we are amazed at the kinds of web documents people are creating. The three broad buckets we have are the following:

o Consumers who want to express themselves- creating personal sites, widgets, slideshows, greeting cards etc

o Artists and musicians who create web stuff for their fans

o Small businesses

- Let me elaborate about our impact on small businesses: instead of spending many thousands of dollars creating a site and then spending weeks every time you want to make a change, a small business owner can create their own site, on their own, and publish it wherever they want. Furthermore, despite the fact that we are in flash our sites are searchable like any HTML sites (that’s part of our secret sauce). We provide a lot of professional looking content that people can use. Certain small business owners would want a graphic or web designer to create this for them – which is fine, and in the future we will create a marketplace to connect designers with site owners. This will still cost a fraction of creating a site today – because it takes much less time to make it – hours or a couple of instead of weeks. And you can do a collaborative design – you don’t just provide a general idea and get a black box – the site owner can change anything they want in real time. And once it’s finished they can change whatever they want on their own

- Let’s take an example: let’s say you’re a small flower store with and you want an online presence. You go to wix, create a site and publish it. Now you want to promote a certain event to your customers – you can say create a flyer widget on and email it to your customers or post it on your site or on your myspace profile. And you can prepare that promotion easily on your own – you take imagery from your site, add some text, press publish and voila you have a promotional flyer that you created in minutes – a much easier way to market yourself online

- Business model: wix is now free for our beta testers. In the future we will charge a fee to our business customers for using a premium offering, but it’s going to be around $10 a month (and we host the site – which is what you pay for hosting today in any case). So for the price of two cups of cappuccino

You have a striking presence online….

Since Wix is still in closed beta, they only approached a select number of quality blogs whose readers will most benefit from Wix.
I’m proud and honored that EWM makes the “cut”, and they happily offered to give me AND You advanced access so we can all test the product for yourselves!

Here’s how:

The following video offers a quick look at our editor.
For further information, please see our blog kit. [BTW, I really like that "blog kit" instead of "press kit" ;-) ]

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Posted on June 14th, 2008 by Ponn Sabra
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Analyze Fitness from a Business Perspective


Business PlanAs an entrepreneur, health and wellness is an essential aspect of business. As the boss of one or many, when you’re down, the company begins to shut down. No productivity means a heavier workload, more stress, and less profit.

Intuitively, the idea to set aside time for personal development seems like it’s diverting essential time from the business, but in reality, the commitment helps you perform at peak performance over the long haul.

Your health improves with exercise and good nutrition. Your body responds to stress and heavy demands with more energy and mental awareness. A fitness plan, similar to the structure of a business plan, paves the direction for well-being from present through the future–an important element of maintaining business operations at full capacity.

The Need for a Personalized Plan

A personal approach defines the success of your endeavor to a healthy lifestyle. The fitness plan is as simple or elaborate as you are comfortable sustaining.

How did you tackle the creation of the business plan? Was it an enjoyable challenge to perfectly align all the elements to the type of business you established?

Did yours look more like an outline with less detail?

Have you started your business and fill in details as you are faced with the issues in running your business?

A working fitness plan matches your style. Don’t worry about how everyone else is doing it.

How a Business Plan translates into a Fitness Plan Blueprint

The U.S. Small Business Administration is an excellent resource for developing a business plan. Using the Write a Business Plan, I briefly redefine the elements to help you visualize the creation of a fitness plan.

1. Cover Sheet = Be creative, have fun or go with basic details. Present your Plan with a picture of You and your fitness start date.

2. Statement of Purpose = Why seek a healthier lifestyle? What is the big picture perspective? Think of this as the mission statement for a healthy lifestyle.

3. Table of Contents = For easy navigation through your fitness plan.

4. The Business = The meat of your fitness plan.

a. Description: What is your fitness level? Through assessments of cardiovascular, strength, flexibility and nutrition, this is where you define your current status.

b. Marketing: This is your sells pitch to achieving well-being. The Motivating Factors that keep you going when the initial enthusiasm wears off and life challenges good intentions.

c. Competition: What drives you to succeed? A race? Adding a minute to a walk? Set competitive marks for yourself if you’re not anxious about facing other people. Competition in fitness is defined by your personality and goals.

d. Operating Procedures: The details of your exercise routines and nutritional choices. Defining time constraints and priorities. Determining what equipment to use and where to workout.

e. Personnel: From the management team to your support system of family and friends, the combination of people you bring together to help you succeed will enhance the success of your fitness program. The management team can be one or many people from a life coach, trainers to nutritionists if there is an area you are extremely weak in managing yourself.

f. Insurance: The realities of our current health system require a clear understanding of the available health care insurance options, life and long-term insurance plans. What requirements help drop the expenses of carrying health insurance. Weight, smoking and various health factors play a larger role in premiums.

5. Finances = Taken literally and figuratively, the numbers for your fitness plan play a role in how you proceed. What do you need to pay out to achieve wellness. What are wants and what can be trimmed from the budget.

From medical bills to exercise equipment, gym memberships and various pre-designed plans, what are the expenses of achieving success that is within your budget and temperament.

The science associated with your body creates a database of numbers worth noting. Cholesterol levels, glucose, heart rate, blood pressure, body measurements, weight, measurements of flexibility, cardiovascular capability, strength thresholds and nutritional needs defined by grams and calories are important to understand in order to develop a healthy lifestyle. Here are a few ways to translate fitness numbers into business style worksheets:

  • Lifestyle adjustment projections: Include all health numbers that benefit from exercise and proper nutrition.
  • Expense Sheet: Prioritize medical expenses, but include all expenses associated with achieving a healthy lifestyle.
  • Balanced Fitness Sheet: Covers the flexibility, cardiovascular, strength and nutritional numbers of current lifestyle with progression.
  • Equipment and Supply List: The list of equipment at your disposal.
  • Fitness Projections: Working goals list. Based on progress and past performance, the projections allow you to plan long range.
  • Exercise Flow Sheets: The way you’re most comfortable documenting your daily efforts. This can be in the form of a journal, simple check sheet, or detailed listing of exercises or food intake. The level of documentation is based on what you will consistently maintain.

6. Supporting Documents = Contains what works or doesn’t for your lifestyle and business.

Just as a business plan grows, your fitness plan is a living document open to adjustments as your health needs change. The health of the business is dependent on your health. The intangible and tangible benefits are unquestionable. Are you ready to prioritize and plan your healthy lifestyle?

Where would you like to begin? I am open to suggestions and ideas to coach, teach and be your virtual conscious in developing a healthy lifestyle.

Have you drank your water? Have you enjoyed your Fitness Chocolate today? Go ahead. We’ll still be here as well as the business! Take the time to nurture your body, mind, and spirit.

Cindy Posey, CI-CPT, is a physical trainer and author of Go Workout Mom, a blog designed to motivate moms to prioritize physical fitness. She is married to a wonderful man with two toddlers serving as her inspiration. She juggles life, tutoring, mystery shopping and a part time personal training job at a gym near home. For a dose of motivation, check out her Motivator Newsletter and free Mom’s Journal in Fitness to begin your journey in fitness.

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Posted on June 12th, 2008 by Cindy Posey
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How to get your partner from zero to hero in your business – Part IV: Be supportable


Part IV – Be supportable

In part III, I emphasized how your business must be appealing to your other half for him to want to be an active part. So, now he is interested … What happens next is up to you.

The paradox of gaining support from your significant other is that you really don’t need it. Like many women, you have stepped into the world of the entrepreneur and you are realizing the unlimited power & potential you hold.

It is a given, and one of my foundation principles, that no woman actually needs a man in order to be successful. (You will hear me repeat this many times – it is that important).

As your journey unfolds and you meet & interact with an increasing number of inspiring, empowered people, you find yourself growing in your power, confidence, abilities and capability.

And, the more you experience, the more you want to share it with the most important person in your life.

How does he fit in with new, powerful you? Unless he is sharing the journey with you, he is seeing you transform before his eyes into an amazing person he never knew existed. Probably a person YOU never knew existed.

I have the ultimate respect for women and their power & capabilities. Most of my inspiration and mentors are powerful women.

Thus, it is my belief that a woman can be fully in her power and still be the lady in her knight’s life. Granted, this may seem a little fairy tale-ish, or chauvinistic, but I believe it to be the truth.

It is empowering to a man to feel like they are needed and can be of service. Note that this doesn’t make you needy. It means that you are truly in your power and are willing to take advantage of the support that is available to you to best accomplish that which is most important to you.

This now puts the ball in your court.

You know that you must own your own success, appreciate that which you do have, and make your business appealing to your partner.

The quickest way to lose their interest is to not give them an opportunity to participate and support you.

Many powerful women are high-energy self-starters. They just get up and get going. They know what they want and are clear on their action plan for the day.

What happens if your other half is not in the loop? He won’t have any idea of what is going on in your world, where you’re at, where you’re going or what you need.

Of course, he would be not too smart to just sit around waiting for you to tell him something. He will probably just get on with his business or job, or any other task that needs to be done.

Remember that he is interested. Primarily interested in being of service to the most important person in his life. You.

Once again, it’s not about your business, it’s about your relationship. It is an opportunity to connect, to share and to do something together.

And your opportunity is to take a step back and look for ways that you can be supported. If nothing comes to mind, that is okay. He is not a little kid – you don’t have to come up with something for him to do, just to keep him content.

Are there things around the house that he could do that would assist you in focusing on your business? Are there any errands that he could do to optimize your schedule.

If you really want to give him something fun to do, tell him that you want to spend some time with him tonight and you would love for him to come up with a surprise.

Being supportable simply means that you are open to providing opportunities to be supported and that you are open to receiving.

Dong do clearly defines your business as an ‘us’ thing and something that he is welcome to participate in.

There is, of course, nothing wrong with wanting to achieve something by yourself. Just let him know what your intention is. And know that even the act of him being out of your space while you do what you need, is supporting you.

In summary: Gaining the support you desire requires that you be support-able, and open to both providing opportunities & receiving support. It is a wonderful thing to grow in your power & success, just remember that there has to be balance. Balance your strength & power with the other gifts & qualities that define the unique woman that you are.

Mark Semple is a Certified Comprehensive Coach and the 2007 International Coach of the Year. Most importantly, Mark is the dedicated supporter of his wife in her business. For Mark’s insights on gaining the support of your partner, and on Success Together, visit: www.successfultogethercoaching.info

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Posted on June 10th, 2008 by Mark Semple
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Home alone: the isolation of working from home


One of the comments on my last post sparked an idea for this one: it is LONELY working from home. Those of you with small children still at home probably have no idea what I’m talking about. You would welcome a few hours of silence, or even the ability to go to the bathroom alone.

For those of us without kids running around all the time (mine are both in school), being home alone all day really can be a problem. My friend Terry actually joked that she was going to buy a volleyball, put a red hand print on it and call it “Wilson” (if you haven’t seen Tom Hanks in Castaway, you won’t get that).

I am an extrovert. While I really enjoy those days where I get to really focus and dig into my work, there are other days when I just want to talk to someone other than my cat. Oh, I talk on the phone a lot but somehow that just doesn’t do it. I feel drawn to GET OUT…to press the flesh, as they say. To meet people and hear about what they’re doing (because it might spark an idea for me) or brainstorm with colleagues about what I should be doing.

It really hit home (no pun intended) when I was looking through an old photo album from my first entrepreneurial venture. That business outgrew my house after 4 years, but I still worked from home on many occasions. We had picnics, went bowling and played laser tag. Every year we had a fun holiday party in the office (complete with piñata – don’t ask!) and an opportunity to dress up for an elegant soirée at a nice restaurant. Looking at the pictures of the smiling faces from the company I had built made me realize I MISS WORKING WITH PEOPLE.

So what’s my solution?

For me, I learned the hard way the first time around that having a company that depends solely on my direct efforts for revenues was NOT the way to grow. At the same time, I am not in a hurry to move out of my comfy home office and incur the expense of an office and employees.

I’m working on bringing partners into my business that will remain working out of their homes, but we’ll make opportunities to get together at least once a month to talk about the business, where we’re going and how we’re going to continue growing.

I’ve also found a few fellow women entrepreneurs with whom I have lunch every couple weeks. We take turns mentoring and being mentored, and some days just spend the whole time laughing. My own little mastermind group – it’s a great release.

For everyone else, what you do depends on what your ultimate goals are. If you’re happy flying solo, make sure you get out there and find fruitful opportunities to network. Volunteer in your community. Sit on the board of your professional association. Just GET OUT and you’ll grow to appreciate the quiet times at home and look forward to the next venture out.

Julie Lenzer Kirk, an award-winning entrepreneur and mother of two, grew her business to multi-millions in revenues while raising her family. She cashed out of her company and now teaches entrepreneurship at the University of Maryland, Baltimore County while providing workshops, consulting, and keynotes as the President & CEO of Path Forward International. She is the author of The ParentPreneur Edge: What Parenting Teaches About Building a Successful Business (John Wiley & Sons) and can be reached at Julie@JulieLenzerKirk.com or sign up for her monthly Boot in the Butt™ e-newsletter at www.JulieLenzerKirk.com.

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Posted on June 5th, 2008 by Julie Lenzer Kirk
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Internet Branding Step 4: Social Media, New Media Marketing, or Online Networking


Part 1: Internet Branding versus Personal Branding

Part 2: Internet Branding Step 1: Understanding Your Goal & Assessing Your Digital distinction

 

Everyone defines social media differently.

When in doubt, I always use www.Wikipedia.org which states, “Social media describes the online technologies and practices that people use to share content, opinions, insights, experiences, perspectives and media themselves.”

As a small business owner, I share all of my content, opinions, experiences, perspectives and medium with you—my reader, therefore making it a very powerful branding & marketing medium for you, your products & services.

Social media has many different forms. It can be in text, images (such as logos & avatars) used in your blogs, audio such as podcasting, webcasts and videos such as YouTube. You can also use tools like as message boards, forums, and bookmarking sites.

We’re presently in this new wave on the internet called “Web 2.0.” — the second wave of user-generated content. We’re creating a consumer-generated community where we share opinions, we ask in our blogs: “Do you agree with my opinions? Do you disagree? Am I totally way off?” etc.

When you write or share a video, it could go viral. If someone loves your video and audio, they’ll post it on a message board, their blog, distribute it on their ezine list, post on their website…etc. It’s This powerful.

My colleague, Deb Micek, is a columnist for www.WomenEntrepreneur.com, the sister site to www.Entrepreneur.com, Entrepreneur magazine. She is its social media or New Media Marketing columnist.

She says that Web 2.0 is made for women because, “If I share my opinion, women are apt to agree, disagree or share indifferently.” The great thing about women and Web 2.0 is that, if they agree, disagree or are indifferent, they will share their opinion.

What are the ways to do it?

Blogging and social networking websites, like LinkedIn, MySpace and Facebook. LinkedIn has a life of its own. People are making recommendations and referring others to me. My LinkedIn account just grows and has a life of its own.

Facebook is the newest “best-thing”. I was supposed to dedicate the entire month of November to just learning how to optimize that site…but, I’ve then been sick…for another day soon ;-)

The bookmarking websites are StumbleUpon, Digg, www.sk-rt.com, and del.icio.us. For instance, you like one of my articles or website, etc. All you have to do is bookmark it.

 Here’s an easy way to describe things:

You know how you have bookmarks on your internet browser on your personal computer or laptop? The websites you like and want to save for later.

Well, the problem lies in that fact that I have four computers and 1 laptop (soon-to-be 3) at home. I have 30 bookmarks on my personal computer, but if I use the laptop, my bookmarks aren’t there.

StumbleUpon, de.licio.us and Digg created online bookmark web pages. You can bookmark any of your web pages with your account at these sites. Your bookmarks are always available to you because they’re on a website, not on your desktop.

What’s critical is that you create friends in each of these bookmarking websites. When I create a bookmark for XYZwebsite.com, all of my friends have access to it.

That one bookmark can drive traffic to the site because, “Ponn said she liked this. She thought it was worthy enough to be bookmarked, let’s check it out.” Each of these bookmarking sites have “tell a friend” options when you bookmark too…so email alerts are sent to friends of your choice. What’s cool is that we generate this kind of targeted traffic for ourselves by be-friending like-minded colleagues and friends online.

People tend to write testimonials and recommendations in the process of their web surfing too. I have people stumbling upon me and I have recommendations from others I’ve never even met. They like my website, give their thumbs-up, and write a little recommendation, which in turn drives more traffic to my site. They like what they read and they share it with their friends, and they share it with their friends, and so on.

While many people utilize bookmarking sites, I highly recommend building your networking sites too, ie LinkedIn, Facebook.

For example, in my LinkedIn account, I’ve gotten recommendations cc’d saying, “You need to learn more about internet branding? Ponn Sabra is the key person to learn from.”

You’re ability to build your account to the professional things you want to be known for, or “branded on the internet” is critical to your business’s success and viability.

You can build accounts around your website, books, ebooks, and consultation and coaching services.  Build one account and building the others comes like second nature.

While many haven’t been involved in a lot of this stuff, people are quickly eager to get involved. It’s a form of giving you credibility through other people recommendations—sortof like generating second-party-unbiased opinion/testimonial for you, your products and services. 

So, I always recommend that you start the ball running in your favor, by making professional accounts, writing your best material, and basically putting your best foot forward at all time online.

People are inquisitive yet skeptical. So, social media marketing is ideal for us entrepreneurs and small business owners with our own niche speciality; because if others find something they like, its in their nature to write about it and tell their friends…so their recommendations buzz around the internet in your favor.

That’s how these bookmarking and networking sites are made. They’re based on recommendations…and creating viral buzz.

Keep in mind though that if they don’t like something about you, they’ll be the first ones to bring you down with full critiques/criticisms. BUT, here’s the best part of a downside. If you get a thumbs-down, people are intrigued to find out why…so, those very people will be taking a look your way, driving traffic to your site and hopefully forming their own opinions—good or bad. 

And, then—the Best part of that down-side is: because of the real-time nature of social media…is that you can calmly, and professionally write up a rebuttal, defense, apology, etc. and come up on-top from this one negative comment! 

A lot of small business owners I know are just dipping their toes into this area, taking a look and thinking about it.

If someone were just starting and wanted to try one of these social media sites, the best place I think to start is LinkedIn.

Why?

My sister invited me to LinkedIn about four years ago. [Take a look here, and let’s become friends ;-) ] I never used it. Then I dedicated one day to sign up. It only took four hours to create my entire LinkedIn account to get recommendations and build my network score to 100%, which means you have certain number of friends/referrals, you have recommendations on file, you added your professional profile (present and past work experience, etc.). 

At the beginning of the day my profile was less than 25% (I don’t remember exactly…but, it should’ve been like 0% since I never used it). With a little dedication…like I said it took me 4-hours, I made it 100% so more people can join.

Now about a year later, I get recommendations, testimonials and requests to be linked to people I don’t even know. 

“I love your site. Will you please link in to me?” I’m always amazed by people coming out of the woodwork. It’s a great way to network. 

I typically reply, “Thank you very much. I would love to know more about why you love my site. Would you mind recommending me?” and they’ll do that, giving me more credibility at the same time I get to learn about them, because I’ll “read” their profiles. 

LinkedIn is very easy. 

But if people have the time, are more tech-savvy I highly recommend working on Facebook! [Here I am.]

I have one colleague in PR (Public Relations). She’s friends with magazine editors and publishers at Fortune 500 magazine. You can get Facebooked and connected to very powerful friends, like politicians, actresses, well-known famous people.

You’ll be surprised by the people who will request connecting with you. I have yet to decline anyone in either of my LinkedIn or Facebook account. [If you haven’t received a reply recently…it’s simply because I haven’t been online for months…slowly weaning back. First duty (as described above) is to build quality information for you to see I’m still worthy of your time ;-) ].  

In terms of social bookmarking, my top recommendation would be StumbleUpon. [Here’s my account.] It’s one of the easiest places to get your profile up. You can literally do it in five minutes. To actively befriend you and teach you how to do it, I have a couple detailed articles on how to use StumbleUpon personally and for your business.

Secondly, a very easy place is Del.icio.us, here’s my Beginner’s guide

 For women, there’s a new media site, www.sk-rt.com. I have a couple how-to articles here:

It’s a great start-up story. Three to five women were watching the Super Bowl in February 2007.

They said, “Wait a minute. We wouldn’t want to spend millions of dollars on advertising during the Super Bowl. Why don’t we do a Digg for women?” They designed sk*rt and launched it in June 2007. It’s an incredible website to be associated with!

Interested in a challenge? While I have yet to reach 500 RSS subscribers…I’ll blame it on my health preventing me to be as active as I should be, but give it a whirl:

Enjoy the social media online networking fun, and please share your experiences below!

 

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Posted on May 26th, 2008 by Ponn Sabra
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